Monday, May 10, 2021

2021 May 9th Mother's Day

“Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate." ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭31:31‬ ‭NIV‬‬

My mother loved life and had an appreciation for everyone in her life. She was a daddy's girl and had many traits of her mother. She absolutely loved her siblings and encouraged her children to also love each other REGARDLESS. 

Thank you for loving me and forever setting an example for me as a wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend.

I loved you then and still do. I miss you everyday and will definitely see you later.

Color Can Be Intimidating

You don't need to understand my intimidation at the walls of color in a nail salon but it is my reality. I worked with my nail polish therapist Shaina Sample for several months.  Her talents are many and I hope that she knows that I appreciate her skills as my personal therapist. I am smiling.

I now feel like a grown-up and it only takes me about five minutes to select a nail color which is a huge progress for me. The teal color just spoke to me as thoughts of my mother came to mind with her love of green and my favorite color blue. 

My daughter in-law really had been selecting some beautiful colors for me. In fact the nail techs would ask me as soon as I enter the room "What color did your daughter in-law pick for you today?" and I would hand my cellphone to her so that she can see the text. The memory still brings smiles to my face.

By the way nail color therapists don't really exist but my daughter in-law helping me is real. I just decided to put a spin on my difficulty in selecting nail polish colors. Whew! I feel better telling this truth.

If you could only see my happy feet fully adorned with color.


Saturday, May 1, 2021

Salt to the Sea by Ruta Sepetys

This is fiction but based on a real event where 9k+ lives were lost when the Wilhelm Gustloff passenger cruise ship was deliberately torpedoed during WW2. It reads so true and each character is a reminder of the types of people who could have been on the ship.  People who loved and were loved and had plans for a future. People who were victims and victimized,  people who lost people precious to them all because they didn't fit the desired pattern for humanity by Hitler, Stalin, etc.

I feel emotionally exhausted after finishing this book. I barely recall learning about this sinking of this ship and the others that faced the same fate during WW2. This book is a reminder that thousands on board were trying to escape their respective war torn country with their families or the remainder of families. Hoping to be delivered to safety elsewhere but instead their loss of life was considered a victory for the country from which its military had created so much death, torture, and defilement.

To think that the commander of the submarine is considered a wartime hero dragged at my emotions. Then I sat back and understood that wars bring tragedy and the commander was supposedly carrying out his duty but at a later time the decision of that commander came into question. 

I was drawn into each character which was well written by the author.  I am not generally a fan of this style of writing but now I am pleased that it was not written as a one narrator.  The authors notes at the end plus comments from survivors and the divers that actually explored the ship really added to the overall appreciation of this book.

The Only Woman in the Room by Marie Benedict

Beauty, brains, intelligence, and resilience. Hedy Lamarr had it all. 

Hedy Lamarr was not only beautiful but intelligent, extremely intelligent. She escaped an abusive marriage in another country and she managed to make it all of the way to our beloved USA,  Adolf Hitler was entertained in her home during her marriage to do business with her husband, Speaking of her husband he concealed her being Jewish for his business convenience and she knew that he could change is mind at any time. As a result of her intelligence she has greatly enhanced our everyday day life through her patent.

One of the inventions that she held a patent on could have saved  many lives during WW2. Through great persistence she finally was granted an audience with certain military staff to introduce her invention. The military agreed that it could be useful but because she was a woman they did not know how to introduce it for approval simply because of her gender. Our military should feel shame for the additional lives lost for their ignorance. Talk about gender bias!

I now think of Hedy Lamarr often when using my cell phone since its design and functionality is directed tied to her invention so many years ago..